Pre-Marriage Counseling for Couples

Build a Strong Foundation Together

Those who are recently engaged or thinking about marriage often focus so heavily on the actual wedding that they don’t consider issues that may not seem too important yet.

Discussing how to navigate life’s challenges and deepen your bond before marriage can prevent major conflicts later.

Do you want to gain insight into your partner’s needs, values, and perspectives – and want your partner to know you?

What is Gottman-Oriented Pre-Marriage Counseling?

Using the Gottman Method, a research-backed approach to couples therapy, we’ll work together to strengthen the connection, trust, and resilience in your relationship.

The Gottman Method is a structured, evidence-based form of couples therapy developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, renowned researchers in relationship science. Unlike traditional therapy, this approach focuses on practical tools and strategies to help couples thrive in their marriage.

Through Gottman-oriented pre-marriage counseling, you will:

  • Build Positive Communication Skills: Learn techniques to communicate effectively, even in moments of conflict.
  • Strengthen Friendship and Intimacy: Discover ways to foster closeness and emotional support.
  • Develop Conflict-Resolution Skills: Work on handling disagreements in a way that strengthens your relationship, rather than tearing it down.
  • Create Shared Goals and Values: Align your visions for the future and set goals as a couple.

What to Expect in Our Sessions

Each session is tailored to your unique relationship, with a focus on building skills and addressing any concerns you may have as a couple. Here’s a glimpse into our counseling process:

  • Assessment and Goal-Setting: We’ll start by exploring your relationship’s strengths and areas for growth, setting goals for your time in counseling.
  • Building Positive Habits: Using Gottman tools, we’ll develop communication and problem-solving skills you can carry into married life.
  • Handling Tough Conversations: From finances to family planning, we’ll cover key topics often overlooked before marriage.
  • Maintaining Connection and Intimacy: We’ll reinforce the habits of appreciation, affection, and emotional support to keep your relationship strong over time.

Ready to Start Your Journey Together?

Investing in your relationship before marriage is a powerful way to set yourself up for a lifetime of love, connection, and resilience.

My goal is to help you build a relationship that’s prepared for whatever life brings your way. Whether you’re seeking guidance on specific concerns or just want to enter marriage with confidence, pre-marriage counseling can make all the difference.

Take the next step toward a lasting, fulfilling marriage. Contact me today to schedule your first session. Let’s work together to build a foundation that will support you both for years to come.